I would like to rant for a moment about locked diaries and non-d-landers.

I understand that some people may need to have their diaries locked. They want a diary but they dont want any part of the diary community ect ect. Completely understandable. But then I dont believe those people should be allowed to run willy nilly all over DL!

I also completely disagree with the fact that non-diarylanders can come here. I think it should be a closed community. It would certainly make it feel closer knit. Maybe non-dlanders could have like a trial period- be able to read a couple entries so that they can see if they want to sign up or not. But thats it!

Its just that I am only comfortable throwing my thoughts and what nots up for all to see, because I know that most everyone thats looking has their sheets hanging somewhere as well. I dont like that someone can leave comments and take surveys and not have their shit out there too.

Its like group thereapy but one person never shares- its not fair and its uncomfortable.

I dont know- maybe I am just being paranoid. I find it underhanded and sneaky to lurk around and never have to be seen. Maybe I just dont get it!

Thank you for letting me rant- all done